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The Truth They Overlooked

In reality, my soul never fully gave up. Even through everything I’ve endured, I continue to handle each situation with grace, even with those who may never understand my actions or intentions. I’ve carried the silent grief for the parts of me that were overlooked, dismissed, or judged. But I’m done being silent. I have a voice, and I will speak my truth. You were never here to destroy me, but to help me rebuild. While trying to keep others whole, I was quietly falling apart. I struggled to stay afloat while pouring into everyone but myself. There were moments I lost sight of who I was. I realize that I am living proof that there’s beauty in the unknown and strength in every step forward. This is a letter to the soul I silenced, the strength I forgot I had, and the woman I’m becoming. Both my brokenness and resilience are valid. Both deserve to be seen, honored, and loved just as anybody else going through it.

Becoming Whole in the In-Between

I created this blog as a way to help those who may struggle with the same things I do—and let me say, it’s been quite a journey. As human beings, we’re conditioned to believe that perfection is what gets you somewhere. And while I may struggle with the thought of being perfect a lot of the time, I know that it’s not possible—not for me, and not for anyone. Halfway is not a place of loss, but a quiet truth. Here lies the illusion of perfection as it softly fades, and where real beauty takes its shape. People don’t always realize that tendencies like people-pleasing and perfectionism can stem from some form of anxiety. It’s important to understand that while not everyone will recognize the causes behind these traits, what truly matters is knowing that they often mask a deeper vulnerability. When we chase an idea that feels unrealistic or impossible, we’re often just soothing our anxiety. This comes from a place where we haven’t been seen or heard enough. That’s why we need to embrace our...